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And in terms of effect, it seems readers have adapted.

The best messages, the ones that get the highest response rate, are now only 40 to 60 characters By considering only messages of a certain length, and then asking how many seconds the message took to compose, we can get a sense of how much revision and effort translates into better results.

Below are messages between 150 and 300 characters, plotted against how long they took to write.

But the downward bend of the trend lines is a wingman in numbers, saying don’t overthink Now, the first vertical on the left, the messages that took no more than ten seconds to write, represents an inordinate amount of the whole and should raise some eyebrows.

It raised mine for sure, and at this point I’m so jaded my face is frozen — Botox has nothing on ten years working at a dating site.

How are so many people typing messages that long that quickly?

Users on Ok Cupid exchange about 4 million messages a day.

Of course, they do so with a special purpose — dating — but the interface provides no specific prompt and enforces no limit on what or how much anyone types.

Last modified 03-Jan-2016 12:57