Online dating is one of the freshest and fastest ways out there to meet people; however, when you’re starting out, it’s easy to fall into traps that can make you start hating this great dating platform. You speak to a great person for a good hour or more—you laugh, you joke, you smile and forget and that there is as little confusion as possible. If you’re a bit more traditional like me, it should be men.Here are four things you want to avoid so you’re not filled with regret over what you said and the time you wasted. If the man, doesn’t, there are a few things that could be happening: a) The man doesn’t mention meeting up because he’s worried about pressuring her.b) The man isn’t sure, so he thinks that he’ll call again and parties are waiting for the other to take the initiative, then nothing’s going to happen) The bottom line is if you’ve spent over an hour speaking to a woman, and enjoyed every minute of it and haven’t found deal breakers, it’s poor form not to ask her out.
The result of speaking on the phone too long before meeting is you may inadvertently pour out way too much personal info about yourself (personal info that maybe you shouldn’t).
Before you decide to exchange numbers with someone you met online, decide what information and topics you’re willing to discuss and what you are not willing to discuss.
Feel free to be honest and tell the other person that you don’t know them well enough to divulge certain information.
Your first telephone conversation should really be about getting a general feel for each other to see if the conversation flows well enough to carry it out in person. Some people spend weeks, even months, emailing or phoning their prospective date.
Of course, you should absolutely know a person when you meet them face-to-face.