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Do you ignore your natural instincts, wants and needs for a chance to explore something with a person who doesn’t quite fit your persona or taste, but makes you feel good?
I’ve found myself in similar situations, the most recent being with a guy whom I’ve known for a few years.
He’s not what I’d typically go for on the physical side, but I felt that could be overlooked if he’d given me reasons to ignore my lack of physical attraction.
The guy is a true gentleman, and I know he’d go all-out to accommodate my needs and make me happy, but there are certain aspects of his personality that irk my nerves, which only amplifies my lack of carnal desire.
But in the back of my mind, I’m thinking, ‘‘I know I’m not the only one who’s ever been in this predicament, but most times, women use guys like this for financial reasons—or just to have a good time and get some free meals and movie tickets—stringing them along with no intentions of ever taking things to the next level.